Most of you have at least met an energy vampire at some point. It isn't a situation that I would wish on someone but there may be others like me that decide to stay with the person despite their draining nature. It's not like the vampires choose to be that way, the vast majority of them cannot understand the situation or even conceptualize it.
I married a vampire, and have been with her for 11 years now. I slowly turned into a husk, a shell of my former self. Very recently I was near the breaking point so I sought outside help. The advice that I took away from the healer I found (not his words but the meaning from them), I was in the situation to make me stronger. You cannot know your maximum if you do not push yourself to the limits consistently. Between those words, and learning a new technique for gathering energy I walked away almost fully restored. Naturally it was depleted a while after returning home but I now had a tool and a goal, I am working to get back to my old self while living with several vampires (two of my four kids are also vampires).
So for those of you who have no choice but to deal with energy vampires, take heart. There is hope for you and them. And in some cases you may be their hope.
If anyone has questions I am available.
What is the actuall meaning of an energy vampire?
I know that these are beings which suck your energy but you are saying that they may not even know what they are doing.
By reading your post this is the first question that came in my mind.
Please explain in detail.
In short, an energy vampire is a person who drains energy from others in order to maintain their own levels. This is actually a very broad group that includes many psychological disorders and most mental abnormalities. For whatever reason, the vampire is not able to self regulate their own spiritual energy.
Consider how the other party in a co-dependant relationship feels. Consider how the caretakers of an Autistic person feels. Part or all of their own spiritual energy is put into the relationship, either unaware or by choice. I will not go into detail on the different classifications of energy vampires since it would essentially turn into a college level report on mental abnormalities.
I admit that I'm still unsure about the reality of energy vampires, but hey, I'm open-minded. Maybe one day I'll meet one, but so far I have been ignorant of psionics, so I don't think I would have noticed one if he or she passed by.
Perhaps a caretaker in an autistic relationship is being drained of [i]physical energy[/i], as it is a rather demanding task mentally and physically. I'm not so sure about spiritually; it might be that taking care of an autistic person actually strengthens one's internal energy; it is such a wonderful thing to do!
It is important also to remember the effect of psychology; research shows that many experiences are [i]not[/i] psychic, and, based on this it is reasonable to conclude that many people are [i]not[/i] vampires either. If you are becoming depleted of energy, consider the possibility of the placebo effect; try an affirmation like "this person is not a vampire." It could even be that, by acknowledging that someone is a vampire, you are subconsciously giving them your energy because you [i]expect[/i] them to take it from you. Only if, after you've tried correcting your expectations and it is still happening, can you be relatively sure. I'm saying this because some people literally believe that vampires are everywhere, and that by walking into the Starbucks they are being drained of energy, and that ghosts and spirits and demons are constantly foiling their attempts at everything in life; you see them all the time on Yahoo answers, and they occasionally pop up in these forums seeking help. Such people make life a lot harder for themselves than it needs to be. Another example is Dean Radin, a prominent parapsychologist and psi researcher; he's said that he often gets calls from paranoid people asking him to stop the FBI from controlling their minds. Do you see where I'm getting? I read an article by a well-known psion (it may have been the guy from "A state of mind") who said that real psychic vampires do exist, but they are a lot less numerous than people would like to believe.
Theoretically it would also be possible to shield against a vampire if you really encountered one by allowing it to feed on the shield instead of your life energy. You could program the shield to regenerate too, or draw on environmental energy.
Just my thoughts. I acknowledge that my understanding of this topic is very slim, and I'm sure you Wyndle know a lot more about it than me. Nevertheless, I personally [i]always[/i] try to adopt a motto of "I could be wrong," towards anything, even skeptics or UFO enthusiasts.
- Johann
P.S. I wasn't placing you, Wyndle, in the same pool as the paranoid people I was talking about.
Don't worry about it, I didn't take it that way. You are right that there are those who see negatives just about everywhere.
A true energy vampire cannot be found in passing. They typically only affect others through relationships. The closer the relationship the deeper the sink on the energy. This isn't a psychic vampire, that is an entirely different subject.
It isn't as simple as programming a sheild to take the hit. And the issue at hand really does fall within the realm of normal psychology with the caveat that a psion is involved and "should" be better equiped to handle the situation. Even those who understand the situation can fall victim to complacency.
Oops; I was totally confused then. I was thinking psychic vampires. Then yes, I agree; some people demand too much in a relationship, often without knowing it. A lot of time, attention, mental energy, etc. must be spent on them, which may leave a person feeling depleted. These are akin to what many people would call a "parasitic relationship." Am I right now?
Bingo
In your post you said that you learned a new method to deal with energy vampires
You said that now you have a tool that helps you restore energy
Can you tell about that special technique?
It would be very helpful for people in similar situation and can also be used if someone experiences tjis in future
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...For whatever reason, the vampire is not able to self regulate their own spiritual energy.
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This is true, however the non mental case spiritual vampires are sometimes self aware. These are often dangerous, and different precautions must be taken when dealing with the self aware malicious spiritual vampires.
2 options generally come to mind, and can possibly be carried over into other energy vampires with a bit of adaptation.
In short:
Option 1: Cure the Vampire by treating the holes in their aura and guiding them through spiritual development so they can sustain their own energy.
Option 2: Make yourself "taste bad". This is quicker and better if you don't care about the person. If you feel your energy slipping from you, fill it full of blackness and hate and disease. They will eventually become physically sick if they feed off you for prolonged periods. Spiritual vampires are usually sensitive, so lacing your energy with undesirable emotion or programming will usually make them go. The exception to option 2 is if they feed off negative emotion, then having a good time will usually ward them.
If you indeed care for them, go with option 1, option 2 I personally prefer for random encounters with undesirable people.
I hope this helps
@a7 -- I said I found a new technique to gather energy. I will share it in its own post when I have ample time to do it justice. The technique is a tool that is helpful to psions that need a quick boost but it is not a replacement for slower, more methodical techniques if you need a full or overfull charge.
ArcAvanger,
You said that we can make our energy bad and diseased to save ourselves from energy vampires
But wouldnt that make us sick because of diseased energy?
Just curious want to know how this works
You have multiple layers of energy and you could single out the layer that is being leeched.
[quote="a7"]
ArcAvanger,
You said that we can make our energy bad and diseased to save ourselves from energy vampires
But wouldnt that make us sick because of diseased energy?
Just curious want to know how this works
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Yes that is a good point, do remember to clean your energy after you are done. This is all in good practice for me so I forgot to mention it. Vampires are quicker to succumb to energy, so the desired effect will usually occur before it effects you unless you are also sensitive. This is generally a quick fix technique so it has longer term repercussions.
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